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Compliments vs. Criticism
Good eve all Well I have a topic that we can all discuss about Compliments vs. criticism Well I think its all clear :) To compliment is to admire or praise And to criticize is the opposite of compliment Now lets discuss how often do we complement or criticize and why? More important how do we do it? And how do we react towards complements and criticism? Well I can put many questions here to discuss but im sure that those questions will come up in the discussion it self So lets see what you all think and how you look at it |
:كاشخ: Hi there .. Well, I guess we all have both actions of compliments and criticism.. We tend to do both based on people's reactions or how would they accept them. Most people love compliments and they barely can't live without being complimented ! Though, compliments are great and do raise self esteem , there is criticism which I think most people aren't that much into it and they are floating in the surface of its notion !! :مستغرب: If compliments are good to straighten people's deviating behaviors then I feel criticism is the same as long as it is not spirit's crushing machine! |
Hey Life Storm Well i do agree with you I think it’s easy to give compliments, however criticizing needs talent Lol I mean we should not over do it We should criticize as we would want to be criticized And not over do it or make the other person feel down coz of it Our aim is to improve not to put down |
Good Morning Everyone. Ramadan Kareem. :) It's very nice topic, and it's good to enrich our knowledge in life.:) Compliments & Criticize are contradicted words but they are techniques should be employed well by a person. As Life Storm” above said both can do differences in person’s behavior, feelings and actions. They can raise self-esteem or make it down or straighten the person’s behavior or make it worse. Though, as forever gone said, not everyone good in criticizing, but most people can compliments no talent required as Criticism. Besides, you are able to use them at the same time, you make the compliment then you follow it with criticize in a good way. Sometimes you don’t know how to start in criticizing start it with compliment, it would be more accepted, and in my point it has more affect than with direct criticism. I’ll let your talented pens to continue this discussion.:كاشخ: |
:منتزق:Oh my God Just Friend here :منتزق: I am honoured Hope your well About the subject I agree with you, a complement first followed by criticize in a point does sooth the air we are really glad to have you here long time bro:) why did you take this long to be with us and share with us your knowlege bro :عيار: |
Honor is mine Sister. :) I know it's long time, but that's life, busy, taking care of other things. Priorities :كاشخ: :كاشخ: Besides,, I am learning from you:) <<< That's a compliment..;) but true.. Some just do fake compliment and there's true compliments which means, it's on its right place.:) |
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no brother the honor is all mine and i thank you for your sweet words about the compliment, its true some do it for the wrong reason but when its done for the right reasons the out come should be great :كاشخ: :):):) miss the old grup here :):):) i hope that one day they will all come back all the best with life dear brother and lets see you around from time to time |
I'd like to add something, it's kind of a proverb. " When you're criticizing someone, look into with a honey bee's eye not with a fly's eye" try my friends, to get the point of this proverb...:) :كاشخ: All the best.. Have a good time.. Regards.. Your Brother, Just Friend.:كاشخ: :) |
Hi nice people "compliment" XD
I agree with you guys praise then criticize =P ( if criticism is needed) It's always nice to throw compliments, draw smiles in others' faces XD |
salam to all
the 2 C when the mood is up people usually use C # 1 compli. when the they got bad temper they tend to use the C # 2 crit. :عيار: right :كاشخ: |
:مستحي:
اقتباس:
hey there good person :مستحي::عيار: well i agree its nice to be good and make poeple happy as long as it does no harm :) اقتباس:
wa 3alikum elsalam well maybe to some as for me i tend to avoid nuber 2 just coz some poeple dont take it well but to the people i care about and love i give them both when needed :كاشخ: |
Hey there everyone,
in my point of view, compliment is an essential skill in people's relationship. However, we should not exaggerate using it because it loses its purpose one people get used to hear it from the same person over and over. Criticism ,on the other hand, has a stronger effect in some situations. Personally, I don't criticise someone's actions unless I know him very well. I think we should have the ability of criticising because it helps improving our way of thinking and judging ,but obviously we should not overuse it. |
اقتباس:
got it عندما تنتقد أحداً .. فبعين النحل تعود أن تبصر .. ولا تنظر للناس بعين ذباب ... فتقع على ما هو مستقذر! :كاشخ: that what you meant :) |
So "compliment" vs " criticizm"
I really don't have much to say but yesterday I was watching my fav program "حجر الزاوية" and Sheikha Salman Al- Awda said sth regarding the topic: "In criticizm, try to criticize the idea not the person" And when you think abt it, he makes sense... ppl may not like the fact that they are criticized so criticizing the idea is better in many ways_ Thanx dear for the discussion here ^_^ |
اقتباس:
hummm yes you are right i think i should do that people can take that more :كاشخ: |
criticize people i care about more than i complement..
complement people i dont care a lot about more than i criticize.. |
Salam,:متفكر: forever gone ,Thanx for such interesting topic:مستحي::مستحي: For me, I believe that Criticism can be considered positive when it helps in pointing out faults which can then be corrected for a better outcome the next time. This can lead to serious improvements in one’s performance. While negative criticism is where something is particularly criticized for the purpose of demoting It is as Samuel Johnson said : Criticism can be considered to be a serious examination and judgment of something or it could be disapproval expressed by pointing out faults or shortcomings” So it’s good to criticize your peers so that they are motivated to perform better the next time He has the right to criticize who has the heart to help.” Abraham Lincoln By the way, we have to be honest when we criticize others because >> It is much easier to be critical than to be correct.” Benjamin Disraeli Besides, we should be aware of what we criticize people for and don’t criticize someone passed on what we like or dislike. Be logical Be aware of those whom you criticize Never criticize a man until you've walked a mile in his moccasins.” Anyway, I strongly believe in the importance of criticism Donald H. Rumsfeld said: If you are not criticized, you may not be doing much.” |
اقتباس:
Well I agree on the last one big time The more you do The more people see what you do The more criticism you well get So when that happen know that you are doing good Lol Or so I think thanks brother for your comment :كاشخ: |
On an individual level I've no problem when people critical me, contrarily, the more you critical me the more I'm cooler even if I'm sure that i have a nothing to critical & and I'm 100% good I don't get upset from criticizing cause criticizing me in such situation means that I'm the superior and as the Arabic saying say:j لا ترمرى الا الشجرة المثمرة and also إن أتتك ملامتي من ناقص فتلك شهادة بأنني كامل Thank you, dear princess |
اقتباس:
and true again when some one talks about you that only means that you are doing something :كاشخ::كاشخ::كاشخ::كاشخ: i like the Princess part :مستحي: |
اقتباس:
In the other hand i don't like Crafting constructive criticism on the internet is usually very difficult because you don’t know and can’t see signs of the other person’s reception towards what you are writing. Thus, you don’t know if the other person is getting annoyed, or is finding your criticism useful. I do not know how the beta test people are doing over on their own beta forums, but I’m assuming that there are as many useful threads as there are unhelpful ones. N.B by the way who is Elivra ??? |
اقتباس:
Have you got a new name?! :ضحك: |
اقتباس:
nope this is me nick name since i was born in EF. :D |
I think we all agree that criticizm is not as welcomed as compliments :p.
However, there are many ways to deliver criticizm, it's all up to the communication skills one has. Personally, I never give out criticizm without starting with the compliments. I think it is always good to mention the positive points first and then head to the negative points. It shouldn't be too harsh though because that would make it turn into a destructive criticizm rather than a constructive one! |
اقتباس:
و إذا أتتك مذمتي من ناقص *** فهي الشهادة لي بأنيّ كامل |
Good morning ,, Boss :عيار:
get straight in to the point,, :مرتاح: Compliment or praising drops in to the same path it's always positive,,, now criticism or criticizing can go both ways, it's whether you positively or negatively criticize the situation/person we have something called constructive criticism which you are trying to analyze the situation and give your own experienced thoughts/ideas but in a way you are trying to build up and correct the situation.. |
Also,
there is a big difference between Critique and Criticism. |
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