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مشاهدة نتائج الاستطلاع: With whom you would like to be with in picnics ?! | |||
Family | 13 | 61.90% | |
Friends | 8 | 38.10% | |
المصوتون: 21. أنت لم تصوت في هذا الاستطلاع |
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أدوات الموضوع | البحث في الموضوع | أنماط العرض |
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Picnics
In holidays
Weekends Eids you need to go out to refresh yourself and have some fun with your people Now I am sure that you love holidays more than anything in this life and waiting for it impatiently , coz it is the only time to relax and meet people you cant meet in working days Some people like to spend holidays in picnics where they enjoy seeing new places with some grills ( Mishkak and etc ) yam yam yam Let us discuss now How do you prefer your picnic with family or with your friends ?? ? Yalla Ya shabab wa ya banat vote now and tell me the reason for your option |
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friends
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I agree with b4e
friends are more fun...most of the times you are free to do whatever you want...laugh and tell jokes in more natural way...I hope you got what I mean.. however, family dayouts have special taste too especially if it is a family gathering with relatives...it becomes more fun All in all, I think youth prefer friends picnics rather than family ones Nice topic sis Keep it up
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اقتباس:
See how guys are selfish They just want to enjoy themselves and have fun leaving there there family between four walls Ya5i ma zen Family also want to go out and enjoy the way you do |
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اقتباس:
if I was a father I will not leave my family and go have fun!! my joy is where their is! you asked what do you prefer...not what do you do!! and at this age...I mean youth with no family it is of course what most prefer is to go out with friends!!
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اقتباس:
well answer future father can't say more
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اقتباس:
parents and siblings are also part of family , it in not neceassry to be children and spouse in Arab society people love to have good moments with their friends and this very common |
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اقتباس:
I go out with my parents...I TAKE them out always!! its nothing to do with arab socitey!! its what each person's believe in!! and the love bonds built family members! in westren socitey there is nothing called "family"!!!
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اقتباس:
I need to reach to some conclusions from the results of this poll That why I picked the subject of "picnics" When you go picnic means you enjoy your time with some companions you feel they are colse to you , so which one is close to you to have good times in picnics ? I am not talking here about daily routine like going out for shopping or relative visiting but I mean spending nice moments in picnics Second points: Westren people give more value to family than friends and this is proven , so do not believe some false stories about them that they dont know what family is Go to any tourist place in Oman or any country and see with whom they are spending their holidays |
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Thanx for the topic>
Family, simply because I am not allowed to go out on picnics with friends you know we are girls and we are STRONGLY attached to certain moral codes and these cannot be violated. Whenever I am with my family, It is fun and enjoyable. It is a bless from Allah. regards |
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Friends all what LM said plus doing picnic with friends is easier you can plan now and go tomorrow..
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اقتباس:
correct , we should be with family only in those times , friends are not better than us to spend picnics with They between four corners like Guantanamo and they enjoy outside is this fair ?? |
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All guys think alike
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اقتباس:
Sorry sister, did not get the point? Guantanamo = family and house? |
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اقتباس:
I think you are criticising family bonds in our society in an indirect way!!...I can understand that but let me tell you that family bonds cannot be found stronger than it is found in arabian society... yes I have fun with friends...and might not have as much as that fun with family but that does not mean that I'm not close to them...my family is my life!! it is not just something to say but I mean it literally!! and nice moments cannot be found in picnics or travels only...a simple lunch gathering can beat all these!! as to westren people I think you have wrong ideas about them...I lived in a westren society and I know what family is to them...parents let go of children whenever they can depend on themselves...children forget they have parent...parent forget that they had children!! it is not the WHOLE socitey but it is the normal thing...same to arab society... hope that answers your doubts...
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اقتباس:
I meant like the jail alone in house |
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اقتباس:
We are burning from inside , waiting for a moment that one of our brothers to say to us : I will take you today out for a picnic I am not talking about myself here , but this is general and obvious, Take rains in Oman as an example , when people go to see Wadiz. You find the place crowded of guys gangs camping there with very few number of families. I didn't say here only picnics will make relationship closer, but since you think about your own pleasure you also have to think about your blood. Back to Western people and the identification of family with them. Since you lived there so you know better than me . Also me I say what I have seen by my eyes. I've seen that all visitors to Oman are accompanied by their children , aren't they western too and came from the same country you lived in? How many of you Arab guys are taking your families abroad for tour? Yes , there are but what is the percentage of people do that ? Very low and maybe very rare |
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Picnics = food
food = family voted for food , I mean family !
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WOW
at least a guy voted for family good news but do you only think about family for food ?? |
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Family.....coze they are more orgnized
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Oh
This one of good reasons too I'm really happy of the way you think |
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اقتباس:
but did u try to ASK your brother not wait for him??...did he refuse the time u asked??...for me, I didn't yet!! so lets not generlize the case...it is different from one family to another... btw when it rained I took my family for a long drive around Muscat!!..just an example! but you should understand the uniqueness of our society...guys have more freedom than girls and I think we both agree on the reasons...which I think are right...so its not easy to take girls for camping for example!! well when you go to UK for example u find 90% of the arab visitors with their families!!! this is not a scale to judge...a trip or a dayout or a picnic is not wt you judge family relation with... u judge that by care and love...let me ask u what would your brother do for you...I bet he would do anything, he would even kill those who try to harm you...that is how u judge!
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Well my choice is family,
Every Eid we as a family, (which is really big really) as we gather all of us, my aunts and uncles and kids, we go to some waddi somewhere nice around our beloved country, and we camp there, depending on how long is the holiday given to us We normally go about 7-10 4 wheel drives. About 30-40 of my beautiful huge family ( ma shaa Allah). And we put up between 8-10 huge tents. We eat and have fun, cook our meals, BBQ, play around. The best part is after 11pm the elders go to sleep, we would walk a lil far from the camp sight and set up a jalsa, we would spend all night playing cards and talking, telling each other horror stories He he Its lots of fun.
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thx sis......what about you whome do you prefer?
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اقتباس:
Wallah I am not angry Many people think that but I become very zealous when I discuss a matter seriously but that doesn't mean that I am angry اقتباس:
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measure this to any other behaviours that guys are all ears to their friend but disobedients to their families. is that fact or not ? They mimic their friends in everything, the way they dress, they they behave and even the way the talk. They feel much closer to their friends than thier families. اقتباس:
Defending me and my name is one of his duties and obligations. He has no choice in it but I am talking here about optional matters like feeling me and keep me closer than anyone else. Did I ask for something impossible |
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you are welcome
I prefer it with family for sure |
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اقتباس:
This what i want people to know , family also has the right to enjoy Let me tell you one of the bitter facts why most of guys are not taking their sisters or families out, simply because they feel shy of that Believe it or not , this is the fact. |
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