**Threaten men**

[Elvira]

Hey all

Well I have a topic to discuss

To all the ladies out there, didn’t you notice that men in general ignore what we ask them to?

For example if you ask a guy to clean his car
Even though he usually does for some reason when you ask him to do it
He will ignore your request
Now that is just an example

My question to the guys is:

Why are men so threaten by women that they think if they do whatever a woman ask them to do then they are losing the power given to them.

I should say that not all man do this but some do

So if you’re not one of those guys, its ok share your opinion any how

And if you’re one of them, please do enlighten us with the reason

All the ladies can say what they think of such guys

[matrioushka]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Elvira

Hey all

Well I have a topic to discuss

To all the ladies out there, didn’t you notice that men in general ignore what we ask them to?

For example if you ask a guy to clean his car
Even though he usually does for some reason when you ask him to do it
He will ignore your request
Now that is just an example

My question to the guys is:

Why are men so threaten by women that they think if they do whatever a woman ask them to do then they are losing the power given to them.

I should say that not all man do this but some do

So if you’re not one of those guys, its ok share your opinion any how

And if you’re one of them, please do enlighten us with the reason

All the ladies can say what they think of such guys

Elvira, You're really after them! Ok I'll be back to share with you my personal experience

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة matrioushka

Elvira, You're really after them! Ok I'll be back to share with you my personal experience

the thing is at first you will let it go
you know ignore the fact that they do it

but with time
it gets to u

and i cant help but wonder why?

really why is it hard to just send me someting that i ask you to send
or do something i asked u to do

so please do come back and share with us

[Smiley face]

LOL,, interesting very interesting !

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Smiley face

LOL,, interesting very interesting !

and what do you think of those guys my love

[سيناريوايجابي]

frankly I am Ok, I do not have such sensitivity as to addressing a lady's request...it is all natural...

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة سيناريوايجابي

frankly I am Ok, I do not have such sensitivity as to addressing a lady's request...it is all natural...

good for you

however do you have any idea what is the reason behind the sensitivity by some guys

[سيناريوايجابي]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Elvira

good for you

however do you have any idea what is the reason behind the sensitivity by some guys

honestly speaking I have not come a cross a guy who takes this kind of issue as an insult so it is kind of surprising to me to hear it here...

[Smiley face]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Elvira

and what do you think of those guys my love

I think men dont listen to their wives most of the times and do what they want to do ,, and if their wives didnt do what they asked them to do,, it will be the end

[الصندوق الأسود]

you hv to knw the Golden Rule

DO NOT give a direct order
MEN don't like to receive orders

for example if you want him to wash his car you go

Your car looks pathetic!!
Do you want me to clean it for you

and then he will be ashamed of himself

and will clean the car

nice and easy

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة الصندوق الأسود

you hv to knw the Golden Rule

DO NOT give a direct order
MEN don't like to receive orders

for example if you want him to wash his car you go

Your car looks pathetic!!
Do you want me to clean it for you

and then he will be ashamed of himself

and will clean the car

nice and easy

ok i got that when it comes to big things
but what about somthing simple as send me the email i asked for

i dont think that everything should be a trick

i mean cant women get what they want with out making it a trick to make men feel like the are in control

its sad really

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة سيناريوايجابي

honestly speaking I have not come a cross a guy who takes this kind of issue as an insult so it is kind of surprising to me to hear it here...

yeah well i knew that some man feel like this

but i guess some feel alot of it

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Smiley face

I think men dont listen to their wives most of the times and do what they want to do ,, and if their wives didnt do what they asked them to do,, it will be the end

yeah tell me about it

its men world la

[الصندوق الأسود]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Elvira

ok i got that when it comes to big things
but what about somthing simple as send me the email i asked for

i dont think that everything should be a trick

i mean cant women get what they want with out making it a trick to make men feel like the are in control

its sad really

of course you can

The problem that some men basically suffer from paranoia

جنون العظمة

they like to keep control of everything!!

maybe a calm discussion will solve everything
don't u think?

[يحيـى]

Man by nature does not like to carry out the orders of women ... Because he thinks it's less than significant,

But, my opinion that the woman's request with respect and sophisticated style may be something normal and responding to it with all the spaciousness of the man ...

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة الصندوق الأسود

of course you can

The problem that some men basically suffer from paranoia

جنون العظمة

they like to keep control of everything!!

maybe a calm discussion will solve everything
don't u think?

hummm

yeah i guess its just that
prob is with that type of act and thinking they will be pushing her away



but yeah nothing discussion cant solve

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة يحيـى

Man by nature does not like to carry out the orders of women ... Because he thinks it's less than significant,

But, my opinion that the woman's request with respect and sophisticated style may be something normal and responding to it with all the spaciousness of the man ...

we can understand that men will not like to be asked to do everything or to be controled
but i dont think a simple requst would be hard to do

[blaze]

To be honest...I dont ignore what I am told unless it doesnt make sense, if it doesnt then I will have trouble doing it... If u can convince me then good for you...if u cant...you have to try harder...and you more reason and logic otherwise I will not do what I am told...

Its not about expressing superiority ...that comes naturally... if a guy tries to hard...then theres trouble... and neither the guy or the girl will be happy...

[الصندوق الأسود]

One night the Khalifah Umar ibn Abdul Azizwas was writing down something in the presence of a guest. Suddenly, the wick of the lantern flickered. The guest offered to go and replenish its oil, but he said that it was disgraceful to let a guest do such a thing

The guest said, "Then wake up a slave". He said, "The man is sleepy". So saying, he himself replenished the oil and rekindled the lamp.

The guest said, "Do you do these things yourself, O Amir ul-muminin?" He . said, "When I went (to do it), I was Umar and now when I am back, I am still Umar".

i think men should learn a lesson from this story!!

We blame our time though we are to blame
No fault has time but only us
~
We scold the time for all the shame
Had it a tongue, it would scold us

[Good Lady]

It happens alot with me in my my life...They (my brothers)simply just ignore me even if it is a polite request not an ORDER! they make me like begging them!
But they are really nice. I love them.

Even here in the forume, it happens!

I will be back. thank you Elivra
guys you should post a thread about ladies

[His Princess]

Only a true man can do what a women asks him and not feel threaten by her
Coz he knows what he is and where he stands

[TTT200]

Eilvara,
some woman have a special power to control man and they contorl them like a remot controler hahaaha
to be honest sometimes i do obey the orders don't tell me how ??????

[Good Lady]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة الصندوق الأسود

of course you can

The problem that some men basically suffer from paranoia

جنون العظمة

they like to keep control of everything!!

maybe a calm discussion will solve everything
don't u think?

As far as I know, this one called "magomenia"

[الصندوق الأسود]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Good Lady

As far as I know, this one called "magomenia"

"magomenia" is another story!!

[Hayut LLC]

not true

[فارس الجزيرة]

Nice topic and interesting thoughts..
Will keep in mind..
-_-

[His Princess]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Hayut LLC

not true

says who


i think what she says is true
some men do it

not sure if they know they are doing it or not

but they just do

[matrioushka]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Elvira

the thing is at first you will let it go
you know ignore the fact that they do it

but with time
it gets to u

and i cant help but wonder why?

really why is it hard to just send me someting that i ask you to send
or do something i asked u to do

so please do come back and share with us

So, I tried to find a convincing explanation for why men would decline or ignore women's requests, and I couldn't get any. I even asked the question directly to my husband, and he talked about human evolution and men's narrower view and fixed focus vs women broader view and multitasking, and this and that... Still, he didn't convince me.

Anyway, I found some short videos for this funny guy "Mark Gungor", he's really hilarious,I bet you saw them before. He's talking about Women vs Men. He might answer a part of your question, I hope

Mark Gungor
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CoEmp...eature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iLD4Q...eature=channel

My favorite ever:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiVCD9QMAMI

[Good Lady]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة الصندوق الأسود

"magomenia" is another story!!

I spelt the word wrong.Sorry

It is" maglomenia".

Tell us that another story?

[Agony of Seconds]

WOW!
I am 5a6eera then!
My dear "3asal" brother would do anything for me!
He RARELY ignores my *humbly said * orders