Picnics

[Madeline]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة bad boy killer

I'm special case

But your reply was supporting other guys' opinion

[bad boy killer]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Madeline

But your reply was supporting other guys' opinion

i was talking about my family... My family is a special case....

[Laptop Master]

I understand your zealousy

As if you don't know guys. Guys are going and coming home without our knowledge and we can't ask anything coz this is non of our business and their own privacy. They decide in a moment and go to where they want

u never meet!!! u can't find 5 miutes to ask ur brother to take u out!! it your fault I can't find any excuse to you here!! you can't expect them to always remember to tkae you out...when you remind them and they disagree than I'm with you!!

But this is the majority at least in the area where I live

so its not general...where u live is not the whole society!

OK , we dont want to go for camping. At least we spend the day time with our family in picnics

you are making me think that you never leave home!!!!

you surely can spend a day out with family and if not then there is something wrong!!

Tell me how do you judge the relationship then?? When a member in your family doesn't care about you and search for his own pleasure what do you call it ?

measure this to any other behaviours that guys are all ears to their friend but disobedients to their families. is that fact or not ?

They mimic their friends in everything, the way they dress, they they behave and even the way the talk.

They feel much closer to their friends than thier families.

this might be a phase...or that could just be a bad son...I told you don't generlize!

That is there and I didn't say no. My only concern is how my brother is close to me

Defending me and my name is one of his duties and obligations. He has no choice in it but I am talking here about optional matters like feeling me and keep me closer than anyone else. Did I ask for something impossible

again you are talking out of personal experince...for me I'm 20 and have older sisters and we still chase eachother!! so it is diferent from one family to another!!

[TTT200]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Madeline

you are welcome

I prefer it with family for sure

why?give us reasone madame Madeline

[Dream 2010]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Madeline

No sister

I meant like the jail

alone in house

Ok. I see.

Well, I do not think that we are alone unless we want to creat such a feeling by ourselves.

We are among our family lovely sisters and brothers, sometimes nephews and niceces.

What do you think?

[Madeline]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة TTT200

why?give us reasone madame Madeline

OK

The strong reason behind that is my family care about me more than my friends. We as girls difficult for us to move in groups specially in picnic which means we have to sit duck for eyes arrows from guys camping out

We need to be protected under the shield of family and thats only bring to us the taste of the time we spend it in the picnic

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Madeline

Thank you very much for bringing live example on how do we feel happy when we go picnics with our family

This what i want people to know , family also has the right to enjoy

Let me tell you one of the bitter facts why most of guys are not taking their sisters or families out, simply because they feel shy of that

Believe it or not , this is the fact.

Ummm

I think it has a lot to do with habits as well,
Btw I once very long bk wrote a topic about how much it’s the girls fault what they guys do this days.

I mean we complain how much its sad that they don’t spend time with us,
Yet when we get married and have kids we differentiate between the male and female, giving the male the ri8 to do the things we already hate on the man our age

So the old bad habits get carried on. Which we could change on our kids but we simply don’t.

[Madeline]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة bad boy killer

i was talking about my family... My family is a special case....

Family always special case and I am happy that some guys are thinking like that

[Madeline]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Dream 2010

Ok. I see.

Well, I do not think that we are alone unless we want to creat such a feeling by ourselves.

We are among our family lovely sisters and brothers, sometimes nephews and niceces.

What do you think?

Loneliness couldn't explain on the number of people you live with. You can be alone even in crowded house.

going out with family has another taste and I hope that guys could realize it

[Smiley face]

What is going on ?

i prefer going out with friends

[Madeline]

I understand your zealousy

Thank you for your understanding!!!

u never meet!!! u can't find 5 miutes to ask ur brother to take u out!! it your fault I can't find any excuse to you here!! you can't expect them to always remember to tkae you out...when you remind them and they disagree than I'm with you!!

If I am in his mind no need to remind him. I dont say he has to be attached to us 24/7 but at least once a month. I know guys have another interests outside so I dont want also to bereave him from meeting his friends.

so its not general...where u live is not the whole society!

It represents part of the society, yet my area is following the common in society as it is not apart from it

you are making me think that you never leave home!!!!

you surely can spend a day out with family and if not then there is something wrong!!

I am not talking about leaving home. I have just came from outside.

What I mean is spending special time with family outside

this might be a phase...or that could just be a bad son...I told you don't generlize!

Do you think it is an individual matter ?? !!!

NO

this is very major and you I can prove that from many stories and incidents when guys are good followers or their friends

again you are talking out of personal experince...for me I'm 20 and have older sisters and we still chase eachother!! so it is diferent from one family to another!!

You also talk about your personal experience. Do you think all guys are like you ?

I pray that would happen

Every girl wish that her brother is in place of friend and everything to her until she gets married, and I've seen many girls wish if they had a brother . Ask me about them

[Madeline]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Smiley face

What is going on ?

i prefer going out with friends

OK

we want to know why

[Dream 2010]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Madeline

Loneliness couldn't explain on the number of people you live with. You can be alone even in crowded house.

going out with family has another taste and I hope that guys could realize it

Then it depends on one's personality and attidues to such a concept.

As I said before, we create such a feeling by ourselves!

[bad boy killer]

Q for the ladies.. if you were a boy would you still choose family?

[Madeline]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة forever gone

Ummm

I think it has a lot to do with habits as well,
Btw I once very long bk wrote a topic about how much it’s the girls fault what they guys do this days.

I mean we complain how much its sad that they don’t spend time with us,
Yet when we get married and have kids we differentiate between the male and female, giving the male the ri8 to do the things we already hate on the man our age

So the old bad habits get carried on. Which we could change on our kids but we simply don’t.

Let us here talk about the stage prior to marital life. A family consists of parents, brothers and sisters ages ranging 20-25

Guys dont have much responsibility at that time, no wife and no children to care about . He spend all his time with his friends outside and coming home to eat and sleep only

He enjoys his time himself with his friends, even in eid holidays. Believe they dont have any execuse.

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Madeline

Let us here talk about the stage prior to marital life. A family consists of parents, brothers and sisters ages ranging 20-25

Guys dont have much responsibility at that time, no wife and no children to care about . He spend all his time with his friends outside and coming home to eat and sleep only

He enjoys his time himself with his friends, even in eid holidays. Believe they dont have any execuse.

That is where I don’t fully agree with you,
The mother and father of that boy can implant the value of family time in that boy from early age, and the boy would grow up to value it all his life.

That don’t mean no friend time and outings, it only mean family are fun to be around too

But if the family it self don’t encourage the boys to have that feeling, how would u judge them for not having it.

I am not saying what ever they do is right
Im just saying they are not to be blamed alone
We all have a hand in it one way or the other.

[Lacrymosa]

Family, OF COURSE!

[Madeline]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة bad boy killer

Q for the ladies.. if you were a boy would you still choose family?

No We have to act as a boy only

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة bad boy killer

Q for the ladies.. if you were a boy would you still choose family?

honestly yes

i mean that dont mean i will not have fun with the boys

but family comz 1st always

esp in Eids

[Madeline]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Lacrymosa

Family, OF COURSE!

Thanks Lacry

[Lacrymosa]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Madeline

Thanks Lacry

You're welcome ma'am

[bad boy killer]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Madeline

No We have to act as a boy only

Beyonce- If I were a boy

If I were a boy even just for a day
I'd roll out of bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted
And go drink beer with the guys

And chase after girls
I'd kick it with who I wanted
And I'd never get confronted for it
'Cause they stick up for me

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man

I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

If I were a boy
I would turn off my phone
Tell everyone it's broken
So they'd think that I was sleeping alone

I'd put myself first
And make the rules as I go
'Cause I know that she'd be faithful
Waiting for me to come home, to come home

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man

I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

It's a little too late for you to come back
Say it's just a mistake
Think I'd forgive you like that
If you thought I would wait for you
You thought wrong

But you're just a boy
You don't understand
And you don't understand, oh
How it feels to love a girl
Someday you wish you were a better man

You don't listen to her
You don't care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
'Cause you're taking her for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
But you're just a boy

[Elvira]

BBK u do know what that song means ri8

[bad boy killer]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة forever gone

BBK u do know what that song means ri8

yeah


bit off track

[bulushi-4ever]

for boys is the friends, girls is the family coz in the family there are men and girls need them for hard work, but boys can do every thing in the picnic by them self .

[ابو ليث]

hi madeline

i voted for Family

u know why

i feel more comfortable when i see my family enjoy especial my children and my boss " wife " .

holiday is the time to escape from routine and go for a picnic or visit some places either in oman or outside .

[Smiley face]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Madeline

OK

we want to know why

Well since i dont live in Oman,,

all my trips are with my friends here

but back home,, i go to alot of trips with family and its sooo much fun..

but its always different with friends..

since we are all at the sme age and mostly share the same interest so it makes it bit more fun to hang out...


but that doesnt mean i dont like hanging out with family!

[m!ss-p!nk]

in depends on the occasion..

ya3ni in 3id times my family comes at the top of the list..
in other occasions my friends would be the best companions.. =)

[Shopaholic]

Home...the picnics with the family...(all the hard work for the boys..the are the Masters when it comes to BBQs)..yet i do LOVE my girls nights out an nights in
Abroad...everything with friends..picnics...get-aways...travel...nights out/nights in...etc

[TULIP]

with family, because of the reasons mentioned