you would really feel better if not happier

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Introduction:
We won't live here more than we are supposed to; not shorter as well.
Don't lose hope, don't indulge in sadness and grip that fine array of hope which arises in your horizon.
I am not telling you here to do this, I am asking you.




Content:(1)


(know who you are, know who made you)
Close your eyes for 5 minutes a day before sleeping and try to feel what's going on your body. Try to analyze every little detail. Feel the blood flowing in your veins, feel the heat coming out of your skin and feel the pulses coming out from your little heart.
Pray not to get happiness in your life, but to thank your God for what he have given you. Thank him a lot for his blesses on you, but more because he made you lose things you loved so much. Thank him more because you spent many nights crying and aching to appreciate the value of health, the value of every little part of your body.
Just realize that the one who created you at the time he wanted, is able to delete you anytime he chooses.



(2)
(start your day by a cup of coffee with a smile)
Try to wake up before the sun shines. Made your coffee and take it to the utmost top exists in your house and drink it while looking at the sun shining. Take the deepest breath you're able to. Throw away your sadness, your problems, your pains. You will see a new born world, you will see a new beginning for your life each day. Smile and let the sign for the rest of your day which won't go with the wind. And please try to make your coffee by yourself.




(3)

(deal with people as you want them to deal with you)
People are nice creatures. Created by the one who created you, so assess yourself!!!
Take off your glasses to clean them and look again through them.
Every morning say good morning , say HELLO for people whom you know and whom you don't. smile for every alive thing even for trees and cats!
Offer some help for younger ones and give a helping hand for older ones. If you're sitting in a bus while others are standing up, offer them your seat; or ask to carry their bags instead. Thank them for helping you and (only smile) after helping them.




(4)
(work hard and have confidence)
Concentrate in what you're doing, give it attention as much as you can. Be faithful, be honest in your job. Write down what your mind and heart tell. Organize your time by giving each second its right. If you're expecting an exam, study as if your life depends on it. Read, write, play, joke, talk, laugh, watch tv and work hard, BUT in limits.
Have confidence and believe that one day you will go up to the moon. If not by body, then by mind!
Be sure that nothing can let you down except yourself. Don't listen to the hearsays and don't give a damn for those who laugh when you're deep down. As much as you try to be the friend of yourself, try to be its enemy as well.
Even if you failed, you still know deep inside that you really worked hard and nothing is gone without a vain.




(5)
(give much, expect the least)
Don't ask what the world can give you, ask what you can give the world.
Dazzle the universe by your creativity. Let them see what you're able to do. Let them know that they have someone who deserves stars for his brilliant mind and for his kind heart.
Give the world the best you can, BUT don't expect a huge support; don't even expect them to agree with you; don't even be( too optimistic) to be admired.
Give them what you're able to give and offer them help, but don't wait for A THANK YOU. Not even for comity because you've done that to help not for accommodation.





( 6)
(what's gone is gone)
Don't think too much about what's gone because it was merely an experience!
Don't spend too much time thinking about your childhood for it won't give more than memories and your time is irreversible. Don't think about a misery happened for you long time ago! Think how you can make it an achievement to prove that you succeeded greatly.
Forget every little thing that troubled you or any closure that was in your way of success. Try to build yourself by the right utility of your present time because one second later, it would be a part from your past.
Don't even think about your future. Leave things for their convenient time. We aren't supposed to think about our future, we're supposed to plan for it, to project for it and to have an optimistic sense about it. Worrying about your future won't give you more than a scary feeling and it surely wastes your time and your health.
What I am trying to say here is that we must make some use of our present for the past won't come back and for the future is still far away.




(7)
(read and read and read)
Reading is the only thing that would educate you without a need for a teacher. Read anything useful. Read political, economical, social and educational books. Try to stay away from magazines because they care about nothing except art and music. Read when you're having a snack, read when you're in a bus, read when you're waiting for a friend, read when you waiting in the hospital, read when you use the NETWORKING and read before sleeping at least for two pages.

When one of your mates celebrate his birthday, or his marriage, or his success in life, give him a useful book instead of giving him a watch or an expensive pen!!





Conclusion:
Believe me, we all are happy but we refuse to accept that idea. We all have everything we need, we even have more than what we actually need. Look around yourself, there are millions of things as a gift from God. Thank him for that and make use of yourself because you're living here for a purpose; and your God chose you as the chosen one for that purpose. Be happy and try accept everything happens to you even if it's too hard. Believe me I smile even when I know that I failed because I know that I did my best and God is always by my side.
Read Holy Quraan. Try to learn some from it for It's the gift which will rescue us. Call your God whenever you're happy or sad and he is really there for you.
Sometimes we feel sad, but we should delete that feeling from our dictionary because it won't help. Yes, cry when you feel like crying, but not for more than 5 minutes. Have a strong feeling that nothing can let you down. Be strong enough to have a successful career in your life.

[ContendeR]

Refreshing,,
i loved it,, this is the type of threads i like to go through...
welcome back Doc..

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أرسل أصلا بواسطة ContendeR

Refreshing,,
i loved it,, this is the type of threads i like to go through...
welcome back Doc..

Oho my contender nice to see you
you're the Doc actually

thank you for passin by. it's really a great honor.

leavin n comin....havin major changes in ma life LAH

enjoy ur cup of coffee...cheers

[Life Storm]

Reminders we really need ..
Thanks for remembering us

Have a nice day

[Elvira]

Nice thread dear
Welcome back, hope to see more from you

What you said is very true
We have everything we need, but yet we always want more

Its our desire for more then what we need that makes us sad
We are in such a rush to get what we don’t have nor need, and we just don’t believe

I think we should sit with our self now and then and remind our self of what we have and what life is all about
thanks again for the thread

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أرسل أصلا بواسطة Life Storm

Reminders we really need ..
Thanks for remembering us

Have a nice day

u r most welcome my dear

we need not to know them, we need to do them

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أرسل أصلا بواسطة Elvira

Nice thread dear
Welcome back, hope to see more from you

What you said is very true
We have everything we need, but yet we always want more

Its our desire for more then what we need that makes us sad
We are in such a rush to get what we don’t have nor need, and we just don’t believe

I think we should sit with our self now and then and remind our self of what we have and what life is all about
thanks again for the thread

thank u for welcomin me back dear
u r welcome

[شهاب السلطنة]

Nice words and very influential not say only true to your tongue and thank you

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أرسل أصلا بواسطة شهاب السلطنة

Nice words and very influential not say only true to your tongue and thank you

oh



















thank you bro

[شمعون]

Hi sir,

You have mentioned very critical points that we neglect in our daily life. Those points are the keys that penetrate and unravel our sadness and madness.

Allah gave us so many graces that we have not recognize them yet, and if he takes only one of them, We are going to feel that our life is upside down.

Dont forget ever to mention Allah, pray him, asking him and exteremlly appretiating what he gave us.

[بنت الامبراطورية]

It is a nice words .....really

thanks

[فارس الجزيرة]

Great thread..

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أرسل أصلا بواسطة شمعون

Hi sir,

You have mentioned very critical points that we neglect in our daily life. Those points are the keys that penetrate and unravel our sadness and madness.

Allah gave us so many graces that we have not recognize them yet, and if he takes only one of them, We are going to feel that our life is upside down.

Dont forget ever to mention Allah, pray him, asking him and exteremlly appretiating what he gave us.

am a mis

thank you bro for your great reply...yup i mentioned that ALLAH is the only one whom we must praise...and that we should pray not to get happieness, but to thank him for what he's given us

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أرسل أصلا بواسطة بنت الامبراطورية

It is a nice words .....really

thanks

most welcome dear

أرسل أصلا بواسطة فارس الجزيرة

Great thread..

as your passin by

[عاشقة السهر]

God bless the writer of this words , such a wonderful tips to stay in the best status always ,,

[saam]

Dear

good thread and beautiful like these topics we need to in our daily lives furthermore don't forget that life is too short and we must do what is pleasing to Allaah.

thanx

[wandoO]

i did feel happier when i read through it!
thank you millions and welcome back!

[لا يوجد]

HI
well , well ,well ,,,
NO HARD FEELINGS
ummmm, with my experiences that I cross through my life ,,
I do not agree with u in the following points:
1) what's gone is gone
2) Reading is the only thing that would educate you without a need for a teacher.
((( BE REALISTIC))

[Agony of Seconds]

Know what?!
I just LOVE you!
This is amazing!
It means a lot to me...