[ Discussion ] Love and Hate

[Elvira]

Guys what is it with love and hate
We all know both are really strong feelings

Opposite feelings actually
One cant feel them both at the same time for the same person or thing

So lets discuss what are the reason of hate after love or the other way around

And can true love become pure hate?!


This thread was inspired by 2 of our lovely sisters
Snow white and Beyond Reason

[bad boy killer]

2wal

[Elvira]

lol

BBK always the 1st
ma shaa Allah 3alek

[snowwhite]

I just were passing away from my thread,
And you’re comment was the last ^_^
So we have share one point in our thoughts,
We can get ideas from others comments …

My replay will be for your topic dear:

Hate will never come after love, an less if you realize that the love
Which you went through was a game only,
And no one will be ready to give he’s feelings for a game..

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة snowwhite

I just were passing away from my thread,
And you’re comment was the last ^_^
So we have share one point in our thoughts,
We can get ideas from others comments …

My replay will be for your topic dear:

Hate will never come after love, an less if you realize that the love
Which you went through was a game only,
And no one will be ready to give he’s feelings for a game..

Fedetik yal ghalla

Yes I usually get ideas for threads from comments I read or something that happen to me or to some one I care for



Ok what I understood is when some one finds out the love they ones felt was not true that can lead to hate

[snowwhite]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة forever gone

Fedetik yal ghalla

Yes I usually get ideas for threads from comments I read or something that happen to me or to some one I care for



Ok what I understood is when some one finds out the love they ones felt was not true that can lead to hate

Ooooh,
I feel shy from nice words::

As I do exactly, no matter,

when I write that doesn’t means I’m writing about myself, as today I got a lot
of messages and emails on my topic here
( oh snow is that true you went through un real love )

I just start laughing till I felt pain in my chin..
And about the hate after love it’s true, we can take approval from the history also ^_^

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة snowwhite

Ooooh,
I feel shy from nice words::

As I do exactly, no matter when I write that means I’m writing about myself, as today I got a lot
of messages and emails on my topic here
( oh snow is that true you went through un real love )

I just start laughing till my I felt pain in my chin..
And about the hate after love it’s true, we can take approval from the history also ^_^

I was just telling some one that at my age now I relies one thing
Mistakes are made and we need to make them to know what should be done

Lets not say I did a mistake but I learned from a fall back

Life teaches us a lot and when we fall we learn how to stand

Heartache is just a part of it dear
i am who i am coz of my past

[snowwhite]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة forever gone

I was just telling some one that at my age now I relies one thing
Mistakes are made and we need to make them to know what should be done

Lets not say I did a mistake but I learned from a fall back

Life teaches us a lot and when we fall we learn how to stand

Heartache is just a part of it dear
i am who i am coz of my past

Correct,
And also we can be careful when we see others suffering from their mistakes,
Example if someone going through a path and he just fall down because of a rock, we can
Understand that this path is good for walking just after removing the rock from it >>>

And we are just students in this life till we are alive... That’s my idea

[bad boy killer]

I relive in love but i don't believe in Hate , I rather convert it to something positive...

[Smiley face]

Firstly i can not hate ! i can not hate something or someone Allah has created !

I would hate someone's actions and thoughts but will never hate that person himself ..

[SmoothCriminal]

The concept of love is greatly unfathomable..
And I'm talking about all kinds of love that exist!
All good acts and notions are but a manifestation of how great the
power of love is and what it's capable of doing

I see love rather as an invisible power in the universe that we need
to find and spread .. we need to believe in love to make the world
a better place and make our lives worthwhile.. and those of us who
have realised the reality of what I'm saying would usually look at
themselves as though they have a message to spread, and I must
say, it's a great sublime feeling =)

As for "love as a feeling" .. I don't care much
I love people I always try to look for the goodness in everyone
And I strongly believe that without love, no one can live ^_^

Coming to hate to be honest, I used to hate people easily
I guess it's my nature/temper ._.
But now as I grew up I realised how awful it really is .. hate never
makes you feel better.. it's just a waste of energy.. it keeps you
away from love.. simply; I don't believe in this word, it is against my message =)


Thanks FG,
I loved this topic!

[bad boy killer]

^^^
+1
Exactly what i wanted to say

[Dream 2010]

I love everbody and hate no body

Hatred is not in my dictionary of life

[Wissal]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Dream 2010

I love everbody and hate no body

Hatred is not in my dictionary of life

I'm like you, I can't hate someone!!

I can hate from someone his behaviour, way of thinking, way of speaking,....

[Life Storm]

Both Love and Hatred have a combination of other feelings
I think love can be hatred and vice versa along with other feeling that can be great factors to turn love into hatred and the other way around

[BaLaNcE]

I so very much believe

The strongest love comes out of the deepest place of hatred

If there was no hatred..There is no love

what do u think

[Elvira]

Well I personally don’t think that you can really truly hate whom you truly loved

I mean we feel disappointment, and anger but not hate

But coz the anger is sooo blinding we don’t see the differ between anger, rage and hate

We can also hate the fact that we loved some one, hate that we trusted that person, hate the things we did and how we felt or feel, hate the things that lead to this feeling

But not hate whom we loved
I just think that its possible to do so

But this is just my opinion

[الليل الحزين]

hi all ,,
in my opinion i think that to love some one there is a reson and to hate some one there is olso a reson,,
some times we don't need any resons to love some one, but there is a lot of resons to hate some one..

[فارس الجزيرة]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة الليل الحزين

hi all ,,
in my opinion i think that to love some one there is a reson and to hate some one there is olso a reson,,
some times we don't need any resons to love some one, but there is a lot of resons to hate some one..

well said...

[bad boy killer]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة BaLaNcE

I so very much believe

The strongest love comes out of the deepest place of hatred

If there was no hatred..There is no love

what do u think

I bet B4E agrees with you

[Smiley face]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة bad boy killer

I bet B4E agrees with you

Where is he btw ? !

[فارس الجزيرة]

are strong feelings wish to be loved and never be hated..

[bad boy killer]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Smiley face

Where is he btw ? !

I talked him yesterday he said malo nfs 7al sablah

أرسل أصلا بواسطة فارس الجزيرة

are strong feelings wish to be loved and never be hated..

I don't mind not being loved ahm shy not being hated

[wandoO]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة perfectly imperfect

The concept of love is greatly unfathomable..
And I'm talking about all kinds of love that exist!
All good acts and notions are but a manifestation of how great the
power of love is and what it's capable of doing

I see love rather as an invisible power in the universe that we need
to find and spread .. we need to believe in love to make the world
a better place and make our lives worthwhile.. and those of us who
have realised the reality of what I'm saying would usually look at
themselves as though they have a message to spread, and I must
say, it's a great sublime feeling =)

As for "love as a feeling" .. I don't care much
I love people I always try to look for the goodness in everyone
And I strongly believe that without love, no one can live ^_^

Coming to hate to be honest, I used to hate people easily
I guess it's my nature/temper ._.
But now as I grew up I realised how awful it really is .. hate never
makes you feel better.. it's just a waste of energy.. it keeps you
away from love.. simply; I don't believe in this word, it is against my message =)


Thanks FG,
I loved this topic!

fidait hatha elkalam ana !

[فارس الجزيرة]

whats love in your opinion..??

anyone can answer..??

[bad boy killer]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة فارس الجزيرة

whats love in your opinion..??

anyone can answer..??

Now that is an interesting question

To me its like what PI said

I see love rather as an invisible power in the universe that we need
to find and spread .. we need to believe in love to make the world
a better place and make our lives worthwhile.. and those of us who
have realised the reality of what I'm saying would usually look at
themselves as though they have a message to spread, and I must
say, it's a great sublime feeling =)

Its something we use for a higher cause..

Like food we don't live to eat we eat to live... so is love we love to live>>>its not we gonna die without it into fahmo la

[Nostalgia]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة perfectly imperfect

The concept of love is greatly unfathomable..
And I'm talking about all kinds of love that exist!
All good acts and notions are but a manifestation of how great the
power of love is and what it's capable of doing

I see love rather as an invisible power in the universe that we need
to find and spread .. we need to believe in love to make the world
a better place and make our lives worthwhile.. and those of us who
have realised the reality of what I'm saying would usually look at
themselves as though they have a message to spread, and I must
say, it's a great sublime feeling =)

As for "love as a feeling" .. I don't care much
I love people I always try to look for the goodness in everyone
And I strongly believe that without love, no one can live ^_^

Coming to hate to be honest, I used to hate people easily
I guess it's my nature/temper ._.
But now as I grew up I realised how awful it really is .. hate never
makes you feel better.. it's just a waste of energy.. it keeps you
away from love.. simply; I don't believe in this word, it is against my message =)


Thanks FG,
I loved this topic!

Just two weeks ago you told me that u hate that gal

You sneaky little devil

[Elvira]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Nostalgia

Just two weeks ago you told me that u hate that gal

You sneaky little devil

hey there dear

long time no see

btw when we say i hate her or hate him

i think at times we dont really mean hate hate
maybe we mean to say we dont like it that much

as it we use the word hate but dont really mean it

like i said today i hate the heat
its not like hate hate
but i also really dont like it la

[ABu_Alhanoaf]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة forever gone

Guys what is it with love and hate
We all know both are really strong feelings

Opposite feelings actually
One cant feel them both at the same time for the same person or thing

So lets discuss what are the reason of hate after love or the other way around

And can true love become pure hate?!


This thread was inspired by 2 of our lovely sisters
Snow white and Beyond Reason

Indeed such a strong feelings, for us not to fall in such awkward situation love-hate relationship” I think we need to Understand that blame should not be attributed to the other person or factors outside of yourself. Do note that factors outside of you could be a trigger to love-hate episodes, but they are not necessarily the cause of them. By not attributing the cause to something outside yourself, you will take responsibility and control over any explosive emotions or fluctuations within the relationship. This is not an easy task, but if you are able to overcome the obstacles and regain balance to a relationship, you will have achieved much and your relationship can move to a new stage.

[SmoothCriminal]

أرسل أصلا بواسطة bad boy killer

^^^
+1
Exactly what i wanted to say

mitfahmeen mal ma3beila bai

أرسل أصلا بواسطة wandoO

fidait hatha elkalam ana !

fedait roo7ish ana <3

أرسل أصلا بواسطة Nostalgia

Just two weeks ago you told me that u hate that gal

You sneaky little devil

No I dont -.-
You know how I don't get along with most girls..
especially when it comes to a7m